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作者:美丽心点      更新:2021-02-20 16:50      字数:9322
  le; or void of natural affection。
  IX。  Of Alexander the Platonic; not often nor without great necessity to say; or to write to any man in a letter; 'I am not at leisure'; nor in this manner still to put off those duties; which we owe to our friends and acquaintances (to every one in his kind) under pretence of urgent affairs。
  X。 Of Catulus; not to contemn any friend's expostulation; though unjust; but to strive to reduce him to his former disposition: freely and heartily to speak well of all my masters upon any occasion; as it is reported of Domitius; and Athenodotus: and to love my children with true affection。
  XI。  From my brother Severus; to be kind and loving to all them of my house and family; by whom also I came to the knowledge of Thrasea and Helvidius; and Cato; and Dio; and Brutus。 He it was also that did put me in the first conceit and desire of an equal commonwealth; administered by justice and equality; and of a kingdom wherein should be regarded nothing more than the good and welfare of the subjects。  Of him also; to observe a constant tenor; (not interrupted; with any other cares and distractions;) in the study and esteem of philosophy: to be bountiful and liberal in the largest measure; always to hope the best; and to be confident that my friends love me。 In whom I moreover observed open dealing towards those whom he reproved at any time; and that his friends might without all doubt or much observation know what he would; or would not; so open and plain was he。
  XII。  From Claudius Maximus; in all things to endeavour to have power of myself; and in nothing to be carried about; to be cheerful and courageous in all sudden chances and accidents; as in sicknesses: to love mildness; and moderation; and gravity:  and to do my business; whatsoever it be; thoroughly; and without querulousness。 Whatsoever he said; all men believed him that as he spake; so he thought; and whatsoever he did; that he did it with a good intent。 His manner was; never to wonder at anything; never to be in haste; and yet never slow:  nor to be perplexed; or dejected; or at any time unseemly; or excessively to laugh:  nor to be angry; or suspicious; but ever ready to do good; and to forgive; and to speak truth; and all this; as one that seemed rather of himself to have been straight and right; than ever to have been rectified or redressed; neither was there any man that ever thought himself undervalued by him; or that could find in his heart; to think himself a better man than he。 He would also be very pleasant and gracious。
  XIII。  In my father; I observed his meekness; his constancy without wavering in those things; which after a due examination and deliberation; he had determined。  How free from all vanity he carried himself in matter of honour and dignity; (as they are esteemed:)  his laboriousness and assiduity; his readiness to hear any man; that had aught to say tending to any common good:  how generally and impartially he would give every man his due; his skill and knowledge; when rigour or extremity; or when remissness or moderation was in season; how he did abstain from all unchaste love of youths; his moderate condescending to other men's occasions as an ordinary man; neither absolutely requiring of his friends; that they should wait upon him at his ordinary meals; nor that they should of necessity accompany him in his journeys; and that whensoever any business upon some necessary occasions was to be put off and omitted before it could be ended; he was ever found when he went about it again; the same man that he was before。  His accurate examination of things in consultations; and patient hearing of others。 He would not hastily give over the search of the matter; as one easy to be satisfied with sudden notions and apprehensions。 His care to preserve his friends; how neither at any time he would carry himself towards them with disdainful neglect; and grow weary of them; nor yet at any time be madly fond of them。 His contented mind in all things; his cheerful countenance; his care to foresee things afar off; and to take order for the least; without any noise or clamour。 Moreover how all acclamations and flattery were repressed by him: how carefully he observed all things necessary to the government; and kept an account of the common expenses; and how patiently he did abide that he was reprehended by some for this his strict and rigid kind of dealing。  How he was neither a superstitious worshipper of the gods; nor an ambitious pleaser of men; or studious of popular applause; but sober in all things; and everywhere observant of that which was fitting; no affecter of novelties:  in those things which conduced to his ease and convenience; (plenty whereof his fortune did afford him;) without pride and bragging; yet with all freedom and liberty: so that as he did freely enjoy them without any anxiety or affectation when they were present; so when absent; he found no want of them。  Moreover; that he was never commended by any man; as either a learned acute man; or an obsequious officious man; or a fine orator; but as a ripe mature man; a perfect sound man; one that could not endure to be flattered; able to govern both himself and others。  Moreover; how much he did honour all true philosophers; without upbraiding those that were not so; his sociableness; his gracious and delightful conversation; but never unto satiety; his care of his body within bounds and measure; not as one that desired to live long; or over…studious of neatness; and elegancy; and yet not as one that did not regard it:  so that through his own care and providence; he seldom needed any inward physic; or outward applications: but especially how ingeniously he would yield to any that had obtained any peculiar faculty; as either eloquence; or the knowledge of the laws; or of ancient customs; or the like; and how he concurred with them; in his best care and endeavour that every one of them might in his kind; for that wherein he excelled; be regarded and esteemed: and although he did all things carefully after the ancient customs of his forefathers; yet even of this was he not desirous that men should take notice; that he did imitate ancient customs。 Again; how he was not easily moved and tossed up and down; but loved to be constant; both in the same places and businesses; and how after his great fits of headache he would return fresh and vigorous to his wonted affairs。  Again; that secrets he neither had many; nor often; and such only as concerned public matters: his discretion and moderation; in exhibiting of the public sights and shows for the pleasure and pastime of the people: in public buildings。  congiaries; and the like。  In all these things; having a respect unto men only as men; and to the equity of the things themselves; and not unto the glory that might follow。 Never wont to use the baths at unseasonable hours; no builder; never curious; or solicitous; either about his meat; or about the workmanship; or colour of his clothes; or about anything that belonged to external beauty。 In all his conversation; far from all inhumanity; all boldness; and incivility; all greediness and impetuosity; never doing anything with such earnestness; and intention; that a man could say of him; that he did sweat about it: but contrariwise; all things distinctly; as at leisure; without trouble; orderly; soundly; and agreeably。  A man might have applied that to him; which is recorded of Socrates; that he knew how to want; and to enjoy those things; in the want whereof; most men show themselves weak; and in the fruition; intemperate: but to hold out firm and constant; and to keep within the compass of true moderation and sobriety in either estate; is proper to a man; who hath a perfect and invincible soul; such as he showed himself in the sickness of Maximus。
  XIV。  From the gods I received that I had good grandfathers; and parents; a good sister; good masters; good domestics; loving kinsmen; almost all that I have; and that I never through haste and rashness transgressed against any of them; notwithstanding that my disposition was such; as that such a thing (if occasion had been) might very well have been committed by me; but that It was the mercy of the gods; to prevent such a concurring of matters and occasions; as might make me to incur this blame。 That I was not long brought up by the concubine of my father; that I preserved the flower of my youth。  That I took not upon me to be a man before my time; but rather put it off longer than I needed。 That I lived under the government of my lord and father; who would take away from me all pride and vainglory; and reduce me to that conceit and opinion that it was not impossible for a prince to live in the court without a troop of guards and followers; extraordinary apparel; such and such torches and statues; and other like particulars of state and magnificence; but that a man may reduce and contract himself almost to the state of a private man; and yet for all that not to become the more base and remiss in those public matters and affairs; wherein power and authority is requisite。 That I have had such a brother; who by his own example might stir me up to think of myself; and by his respect and love; delight and please me。  That I have got ingen