第 78 节
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  sake。〃  When surprise was expressed at the patience of a poor
  Arabian woman under heavy affliction; she said; 〃When we look on
  God's face we do not feel His hand。〃
  Suffering is doubtless as divinely appointed as joy; while it is
  much more influential as a discipline of character。  It chastens
  and sweetens the nature; teaches patience and resignation; and
  promotes the deepest as well as the most exalted thought。 (12)
  〃The best of men
  That e'er wore earth about Him was a sufferer;
  A soft; meek; patient; humble; tranquil spirit
  The first true gentleman that ever breathed。〃 (13)
  Suffering may be the appointed means by which the highest nature
  of man is to be disciplined and developed。  Assuming happiness to
  be the end of being; sorrow may be the indispensable condition
  through which it is to be reached。  Hence St。 Paul's noble paradox
  descriptive of the Christian life;〃as chastened; and not
  killed; as sorrowful; yet always rejoicing; as poor; yet making
  many rich; as having nothing; and yet possessing all things。〃
  Even pain is not all painful。  On one side it is related to
  suffering; and on the other to happiness。  For pain is remedial as
  well as sorrowful。  Suffering is a misfortune as viewed from the
  one side; and a discipline as viewed from the other。  But for
  suffering; the best part of many men's nature would sleep a deep
  sleep。  Indeed; it might almost be said that pain and sorrow were
  the indispensable conditions of some men's success; and the
  necessary means to evoke the highest development of their genius。
  Shelley has said of poets:
  〃Most wretched men are cradled into poetry by wrong;
  They learn in suffering what they teach in song。〃
  Does any one suppose that Burns would have sung as he did;
  had he been rich; respectable; and 〃kept a gig;〃 or Byron;
  if he had been a prosperous; happily…married Lord Privy Seal
  or Postmaster…General?
  Sometimes a heartbreak rouses an impassive nature to life。
  〃What does he know;〃 said a sage; 〃who has not suffered?〃
  When Dumas asked Reboul; 〃What made you a poet?〃 his answer was;
  〃Suffering!〃 It was the death; first of his wife; and then of
  his child; that drove him into solitude for the indulgence of
  his grief; and eventually led him to seek and find relief in
  verse。 (14)  It was also to a domestic affliction that we owe
  the beautiful writings of Mrs。 Gaskell。  〃It was as a recreation;
  in the highest sense of the word;〃 says a recent writer; speaking
  from personal knowledge; 〃as an escape from the great void of a
  life from which a cherished presence had been taken; that she
  began that series of exquisite creations which has served to
  multiply the number of our acquaintances; and to enlarge even
  the circle of our friendships。〃 (15)
  Much of the best and most useful work done by men and women has
  been done amidst afflictionsometimes as a relief from it;
  sometimes from a sense of duty overpowering personal sorrow。  〃If
  I had not been so great an invalid;〃 said Dr。 Darwin to a friend;
  〃I should not have done nearly so much work as I have been able to
  accomplish。〃  So Dr。 Donne; speaking of his illnesses; once said:
  〃This advantage you and my other friends have by my frequent
  fevers is; that I am so much the oftener at the gates of Heaven;
  and by the solitude and close imprisonment they reduce me to; I am
  so much the oftener at my prayers; in which you and my other dear
  friends are not forgotten。〃
  Schiller produced his greatest tragedies in the midst of physical
  suffering almost amounting to torture。  Handel was never greater
  than when; warned by palsy of the approach of death; and
  struggling with distress and suffering; he sat down to compose the
  great works which have made his name immortal in music。  Mozart
  composed his great operas; and last of all his 'Requiem;' when
  oppressed by debt; and struggling with a fatal disease。  Beethoven
  produced his greatest works amidst gloomy sorrow; when oppressed
  by almost total deafness。  And poor Schubert; after his short but
  brilliant life; laid it down at the early age of thirty…two;
  his sole property at his death consisting of his manuscripts;
  the clothes he wore; and sixty…three florins in money。  Some of
  Lamb's finest writings were produced amidst deep sorrow; and
  Hood's apparent gaiety often sprang from a suffering heart。
  As he himself wrote;
  〃There's not a string attuned to mirth;
  But has its chord in melancholy。〃
  Again; in science; we have the noble instance of the suffering
  Wollaston; even in the last stages of the mortal disease which
  afflicted him; devoting his numbered hours to putting on record;
  by dictation; the various discoveries and improvements he had
  made; so that any knowledge he had acquired; calculated to benefit
  his fellow…creatures; might not be lost。
  Afflictions often prove but blessings in disguise。  〃Fear not the
  darkness;〃 said the Persian sage; it 〃conceals perhaps the springs
  of the waters of life。〃  Experience is often bitter; but
  wholesome; only by its teaching can we learn to suffer and be
  strong。  Character; in its highest forms; is disciplined by trial;
  and 〃made perfect through suffering。〃  Even from the deepest
  sorrow; the patient and thoughtful mind will gather richer wisdom
  than pleasure ever yielded。
  〃The soul's dark cottage; batter'd and decayed;
  Lets in new light through chinks that Time has made。〃
  〃Consider;〃 said Jeremy Taylor; 〃that sad accidents; and a state
  of afflictions; is a school of virtue。  It reduces our spirits to
  soberness; and our counsels to moderation; it corrects levity; and
  interrupts the confidence of sinning。。。。 God; who in mercy and
  wisdom governs the world; would never have suffered so many
  sadnesses; and have sent them; especially; to the most virtuous
  and the wisest men; but that He intends they should be the
  seminary of comfort; the nursery of virtue; the exercise of
  wisdom; the trial of patience; the venturing for a crown;
  and the gate of glory。〃 (16)
  And again:〃No man is more miserable than he that hath no
  adversity。  That man is not tried; whether he be good or bad;
  and God never crowns those virtues which are only FACULTIES
  and DISPOSITIONS; but every act of virtue is an ingredient
  unto reward。〃 (17)
  Prosperity and success of themselves do not confer happiness;
  indeed; it not unfrequently happens that the least successful in
  life have the greatest share of true joy in it。  No man could have
  been more successful than Goethepossessed of splendid health;
  honour; power; and sufficiency of this world's goodsand yet he
  confessed that he had not; in the course of his life; enjoyed five
  weeks of genuine pleasure。  So the Caliph Abdalrahman; in
  surveying his successful reign of fifty years; found that he had
  enjoyed only fourteen days of pure and genuine happiness。 (18)
  After this; might it not be said that the pursuit of mere
  happiness is an illusion?
  Life; all sunshine without shade; all happiness without sorrow;
  all pleasure without pain; were not life at allat least not
  human life。  Take the lot of the happiestit is a tangled yarn。
  It is made up of sorrows and joys; and the joys are all the
  sweeter because of the sorrows; bereavements and blessings; one
  following another; making us sad and blessed by turns。  Even death
  itself makes life more loving; it binds us more closely together
  while here。  Dr。 Thomas Browne has argued that death is one of the
  necessary conditions of human happiness; and he supports his
  argument with great force and eloquence。  But when death comes
  into a household; we do not philosophisewe only feel。  The
  eyes that are full of tears do not see; though in course of
  time they come to see more clearly and brightly than those
  that have never known sorrow。
  The wise person gradually learns not to expect too much from life。
  While he strives for success by worthy methods; he will be
  prepared for failures; he will keep his mind open to enjoyment;
  but submit patiently to suffering。  Wailings and complainings of
  life are never of any use; only cheerful and continuous working
  in right paths are of real avail。
  Nor will the wise man expect too much from those about him。  If he
  would live at peace with others; he will bear and forbear。  And
  even the best have often foibles of character which have to be
  endured; sympathised with; and perhaps pitied。  Who is perfect?
  Who does not suffer from some thorn in the flesh?  Who does not
  stand in need of toleration; of forbearance; of forgiveness?  What
  the poor imprisoned Queen Caroline Matilda of Denmark wrote on her
  chapel…window ought to be the prayer of all;〃Oh! keep me
  innocent! make others great。〃
  Then; how much does the disposition of every human being depend
  upon their innate constitution and their early surroundings;
  the comfort or discomfort of the homes in which