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  saw him; and stammered out my thanks to him; from this time forth
  our souls were one。〃  They were betrothed long before their means
  would permit them to marry; but at length they were united。  〃We
  were married;〃 says Caroline; the wife; 〃by the rose…light of a
  beautiful evening。  We were one heart; one soul。〃  Herder was
  equally ecstatic in his language。  〃I have a wife;〃 he wrote
  to Jacobi; 〃that is the tree; the consolation; and the happiness
  of my life。  Even in flying transient thoughts (which often
  surprise us); we are one!〃
  Take; again; the case of Fichte; in whose history his courtship
  and marriage form a beautiful episode。  He was a poor German
  student; living with a family at Zurich in the capacity of tutor;
  when he first made the acquaintance of Johanna Maria Hahn; a niece
  of Klopstock。  Her position in life was higher than that of
  Fichte; nevertheless; she regarded him with sincere admiration。
  When Fichte was about to leave Zurich; his troth plighted to her;
  she; knowing him to be very poor; offered him a gift of money
  before setting out。  He was inexpressibly hurt by the offer; and;
  at first; even doubted whether she could really love him; but; on
  second thoughts; he wrote to her; expressing his deep thanks; but;
  at the same time; the impossibility of his accepting such a gift
  from her。  He succeeded in reaching his destination; though
  entirely destitute of means。  After a long and hard struggle with
  the world; extending over many years; Fichte was at length earning
  money enough to enable him to marry。  In one of his charming
  letters to his betrothed he said:〃And so; dearest; I solemnly
  devote myself to thee; and thank thee that thou hast thought me
  not unworthy to be thy companion on the journey of life。。。。  There
  is no land of happiness here belowI know it nowbut a land of
  toil; where every joy but strengthens us for greater labour。
  Hand…in…hand we shall traverse it; and encourage and strengthen
  each other; until our spiritsoh; may it be together!shall
  rise to the eternal fountain of all peace。〃
  The married life of Fichte was very happy。  His wife proved a true
  and highminded helpmate。  During the War of Liberation she was
  assiduous in her attention to the wounded in the hospitals; where
  she caught a malignant fever; which nearly carried her off。
  Fichte himself caught the same disease; and was for a time
  completely prostrated; but he lived for a few more years and died
  at the early age of fifty…two; consumed by his own fire。
  What a contrast does the courtship and married life of the blunt
  and practical William Cobbett present to the aesthetical and
  sentimental love of these highly refined Germans!  Not less
  honest; not less true; but; as some would think; comparatively
  coarse and vulgar。  When he first set eyes upon the girl that was
  afterwards to become his wife; she was only thirteen years old;
  and he was twenty…onea sergeant…major in a foot regiment
  stationed at St。 John's in New Brunswick。  He was passing the
  door of her father's house one day in winter; and saw the girl
  out in the snow; scrubbing a washing…tub。  He said at once to
  himself; 〃That's the girl for me。〃  He made her acquaintance;
  and resolved that she should be his wife so soon as he could
  get discharged from the army。
  On the eve of the girl's return to Woolwich with her father; who
  was a sergeant…major in the artillery; Cobbett sent her a hundred
  and fifty guineas which he had saved; in order that she might be
  able to live without hard work until his return to England。  The
  girl departed; taking with her the money; and five years later
  Cobbett obtained his discharge。  On reaching London; he made haste
  to call upon the sergeant…major's daughter。  〃I found;〃 he says;
  〃my little girl a servant…of…all…work (and hard work it was); at
  five pounds a year; in the house of a Captain Brisac; and; without
  hardly saying a word about the matter; she put into my hands the
  whole of my hundred and fifty guineas; unbroken。〃  Admiration of
  her conduct was now added to love of her person; and Cobbett
  shortly after married the girl; who proved an excellent wife。  He
  was; indeed; never tired of speaking her praises; and it was his
  pride to attribute to her all the comfort and much of the success
  of his after…life。
  Though Cobbett was regarded by many in his lifetime as a coarse;
  hard; practical man; full of prejudices; there was yet a strong
  undercurrent of poetry in his nature; and; while he declaimed
  against sentiment; there were few men more thoroughly imbued with
  sentiment of the best kind。  He had the tenderest regard for the
  character of woman。  He respected her purity and her virtue; and
  in his 'Advice to Young Men;' he has painted the true womanly
  womanthe helpful; cheerful; affectionate wifewith a
  vividness and brightness; and; at the same time; a force of good
  sense; that has never been surpassed by any English writer。
  Cobbett was anything but refined; in the conventional sense of the
  word; but he was pure; temperate; self…denying; industrious;
  vigorous; and energetic; in an eminent degree。  Many of his views
  were; no doubt; wrong; but they were his own; for he insisted on
  thinking for himself in everything。  Though few men took a firmer
  grasp of the real than he did; perhaps still fewer were more
  swayed by the ideal。  In word…pictures of his own emotions; he is
  unsurpassed。  Indeed; Cobbett might almost be regarded as one of
  the greatest prose poets of English real life。
  NOTES
  (1) Mungo Park declared that he was more affected by this incident
  than by any other that befel him in the course of his travels。  As
  he lay down to sleep on the mat spread for him on the floor of the
  hut; his benefactress called to the female part of the family to
  resume their task of spinning cotton; in which they continued
  employed far into the night。  〃They lightened their labour with
  songs;〃 says the traveller; 〃one of which was composed extempore;
  for I was myself the subject of it; it was sung by one of the
  young women; the rest joining in a chorus。  The air was sweet and
  plaintive; and the words; literally translated; were these: 'The
  winds roared; and the rains fell。  The poor white man; faint and
  weary; came and sat under our tree。  He has no mother to bring him
  milk; no wife to grind his corn。' Chorus'Let us pity the white
  man; no mother has he!'  Trifling as this recital may appear; to a
  person in my situation the circumstance was affecting in the
  highest degree。  I was so oppressed by such unexpected kindness;
  that sleep fled before my eyes。〃
  (2)'Transformation; or Monte Beni。'
  (3) 'Portraits Contemporains;' iii。 519。
  (4) Mr。 Arthur Helps; in one of his Essays; has wisely said: 〃You
  observe a man becoming day by day richer; or advancing in station;
  or increasing in professional reputation; and you set him down as
  a successful man in life。  But if his home is an ill…regulated
  one; where no links of affection extend throughout the family
  whose former domestics (and he has had more of them than he can
  well remember) look back upon their sojourn with him as one
  unblessed by kind words or deedsI contend that that man has not
  been successful。  Whatever good fortune he may have in the world;
  it is to be remembered that he has always left one important
  fortress untaken behind him。  That man's life does not surely read
  well whose benevolence has found no central home。  It may have
  sent forth rays in various directions; but there should have been
  a warm focus of lovethat home…nest which is formed round a good
  mans heart。〃CLAIMS OF LABOUR。
  (5) 〃The red heart sends all its instincts up to the white brain; to
  be analysed; chilled; blanched; and so become pure reasonwhich
  is just exactly what we do NOT want of women as women。  The
  current should run the other way。  The nice; calm; cold thought;
  which; in women; shapes itself so rapidly that they hardly know it
  as thought; should always travel to the lips VIA the heart。
  It does so in those women whom all love and admire。。。。
  The brain…women never interest us like the heart…women;
  white roses please less than red。〃THE PROFESSOR AT THE
  BREAKFAST TABLE; by Oliver Wendell Holmes。
  (6) 'The War and General Culture;' 1871。
  (7) 〃Depend upon it; men set more value on the cultivated minds than
  on the accomplishments of women; which they are rarely able to
  appreciate。  It is a common error; but it is an error; that
  literature unfits women for the everyday business of life。  It is
  not so with men。  You see those of the most cultivated minds
  constantly devoting their time and attention to the most homely
  objects。  Literature gives women a real and proper weight in
  society; but then they must use it with discretion。〃
  THE REV。 SYDNEY SMITH。
  (8) 'The Statesman;' pp。 73…75。
  (9) Fuller; the Church historian; with his usual homely mother…wit;
  speaking of the choice of a w