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  nowhere did the sunshine of her love seem so bright as when
  lighting up the couch of her invalid husband。
  Nor was he unconscious of her worth。  In one of his letters to
  her; when absent from his side; Hood said: 〃I never was anything;
  Dearest; till I knew you; and I have been a better; happier; and
  more prosperous man ever since。  Lay by that truth in lavender;
  Sweetest; and remind me of it when I fail。  I am writing warmly
  and fondly; but not without good cause。  First; your own
  affectionate letter; lately received; next; the remembrance of our
  dear children; pledgeswhat darling ones!of our old familiar
  love; then; a delicious impulse to pour out the overflowings of my
  heart into yours; and last; not least; the knowledge that your
  dear eyes will read what my hand is now writing。  Perhaps there is
  an afterthought that; whatever may befall me; the wife of my bosom
  will have the acknowledgment of her tenderness; worth; excellence
  all that is wifely or womanly; from my pen。〃  In another letter;
  also written to his wife during a brief absence; there is a
  natural touch; showing his deep affection for her: 〃I went and
  retraced our walk in the park; and sat down on the same seat; and
  felt happier and better。〃
  But not only was Mrs。 Hood a consoler; she was also a helper of
  her husband in his special work。  He had such confidence in her
  judgment; that he read; and re…read; and corrected with her
  assistance all that he wrote。  Many of his pieces were first
  dedicated to her; and her ready memory often supplied him with
  the necessary references and quotations。  Thus; in the roll
  of noble wives of men of genius; Mrs。 Hood will always be
  entitled to take a foremost place。
  Not less effective as a literary helper was Lady Napier; the wife
  of Sir William Napier; historian of the Peninsular War。  She
  encouraged him to undertake the work; and without her help he
  would have experienced great difficulty in completing it。  She
  translated and epitomized the immense mass of original documents;
  many of them in cipher; on which it was in a great measure
  founded。  When the Duke of Wellington was told of the art and
  industry she had displayed in deciphering King Joseph's portfolio;
  and the immense mass of correspondence taken at Vittoria; he at
  first would hardly believe it; adding〃I would have given
  20;000L。  to any person who could have done this for me in the
  Peninsula。〃  Sir William Napier's handwriting being almost
  illegible; Lady Napier made out his rough interlined manuscript;
  which he himself could scarcely read; and wrote out a full fair
  copy for the printer; and all this vast labour she undertook and
  accomplished; according to the testimony of her husband; without
  having for a moment neglected the care and education of a large
  family。  When Sir William lay on his deathbed; Lady Napier was at
  the same time dangerously ill; but she was wheeled into his room
  on a sofa; and the two took their silent farewell of each other。
  The husband died first; in a few weeks the wife followed him; and
  they sleep side by side in the same grave。
  Many other similar truehearted wives rise up in the memory; to
  recite whose praises would more than fill up our remaining space
  such as Flaxman's wife; Ann Denham; who cheered and encouraged her
  husband through life in the prosecution of his art; accompanying
  him to Rome; sharing in his labours and anxieties; and finally in
  his triumphs; and to whom Flaxman; in the fortieth year of their
  married life; dedicated his beautiful designs illustrative of
  Faith; Hope; and Charity; in token of his deep and undimmed
  affection;such as Katherine Boutcher; 〃dark…eyed Kate;〃 the
  wife of William Blake; who believed her husband to be the first
  genius on earth; worked off the impressions of his plates and
  coloured them beautifully with her own hand; bore with him in all
  his erratic ways; sympathised with him in his sorrows and joys for
  forty…five years; and comforted him until his dying hourhis
  last sketch; made in his seventy…first year; being a likeness of
  himself; before making which; seeing his wife crying by his side;
  he said; 〃Stay; Kate! just keep as you are; I will draw your
  portrait; for you have ever been an angel to me;〃such again as
  Lady Franklin; the true and noble woman; who never rested in her
  endeavours to penetrate the secret of the Polar Sea and prosecute
  the search for her long…lost husbandundaunted by failure; and
  persevering in her determination with a devotion and singleness of
  purpose altogether unparalleled;or such again as the wife of
  Zimmermann; whose intense melancholy she strove in vain to
  assuage; sympathizing with him; listening to him; and endeavouring
  to understand himand to whom; when on her deathbed; about to
  leave him for ever; she addressed the touching words; 〃My poor
  Zimmermann! who will now understand thee?〃
  Wives have actively helped their husbands in other ways。  Before
  Weinsberg surrendered to its besiegers; the women of the place
  asked permission of the captors to remove their valuables。  The
  permission was granted; and shortly after; the women were seen
  issuing from the gates carrying their husbands on their shoulders。
  Lord Nithsdale owed his escape from prison to the address of his
  wife; who changed garments with him; sending him forth in her
  stead; and herself remaining prisoner;an example which was
  successfully repeated by Madame de Lavalette。
  But the most remarkable instance of the release of a husband
  through the devotion of a wife; was that of the celebrated
  Grotius。  He had lain for nearly twenty months in the strong
  fortress of Loevestein; near Gorcum; having been condemned by the
  government of the United Provinces to perpetual imprisonment。  His
  wife; having been allowed to share his cell; greatly relieved his
  solitude。  She was permitted to go into the town twice a week; and
  bring her husband books; of which he required a large number to
  enable him to prosecute his studies。  At length a large chest was
  required to hold them。  This the sentries at first examined with
  great strictness; but; finding that it only contained books
  (amongst others Arminian books) and linen; they at length gave up
  the search; and it was allowed to pass out and in as a matter of
  course。  This led Grotius' wife to conceive the idea of releasing
  him; and she persuaded him one day to deposit himself in the chest
  instead of the outgoing books。  When the two soldiers appointed to
  remove it took it up; they felt it to be considerably heavier than
  usual; and one of them asked; jestingly; 〃Have we got the Arminian
  himself here?〃 to which the ready…witted wife replied; 〃Yes;
  perhaps some Arminian books。〃  The chest reached Gorcum in safety;
  the captive was released; and Grotius escaped across the frontier
  into Brabant; and afterwards into France; where he was rejoined
  by his wife。
  Trial and suffering are the tests of married life。  They bring out
  the real character; and often tend to produce the closest union。
  They may even be the spring of the purest happiness。
  Uninterrupted joy; like uninterrupted success; is not good for
  either man or woman。  When Heine's wife died; he began to reflect
  upon the loss he had sustained。  They had both known poverty; and
  struggled through it hand…in…hand; and it was his greatest sorrow
  that she was taken from him at the moment when fortune was
  beginning to smile upon him; but too late for her to share in his
  prosperity。  〃Alas I〃 said he; 〃amongst my griefs must I reckon
  even her lovethe strongest; truest; that ever inspired the
  heart of womanwhich made me the happiest of mortals; and yet
  was to me a fountain of a thousand distresses; inquietudes; and
  cares?  To entire cheerfulness; perhaps; she never attained; but
  for what unspeakable sweetness; what exalted; enrapturing joys; is
  not love indebted to sorrow!  Amidst growing anxieties; with the
  torture of anguish in my heart; I have been made; even by the loss
  which caused me this anguish and these anxieties; inexpressibly
  happy!  When tears flowed over our cheeks; did not a nameless;
  seldom…felt delight stream through my breast; oppressed equally
  by joy and sorrow!〃
  There is a degree of sentiment in German love which seems strange
  to English readers;such as we find depicted in the lives of
  Novalis; Jung Stilling; Fichte; Jean Paul; and others that might
  be named。  The German betrothal is a ceremony of almost equal
  importance to the marriage itself; and in that state the
  sentiments are allowed free play; whilst English lovers are
  restrained; shy; and as if ashamed of their feelings。  Take; for
  instance; the case of Herder; whom his future wife first saw in
  the pulpit。  〃I heard;〃 she says; 〃the voice of an angel; and
  soul's words such as I had never heard before。  In the afternoon I
  saw him; and stammered out my thanks to him; from this time forth
  our souls were one。〃  They were betrothed long befo