第 6 节
作者:旅游巴士      更新:2021-02-20 14:18      字数:9322
  to spare the rod was to spoil the child; and St Paul had placed
  disobedience to parents in very ugly company。  If his children did
  anything which Mr Pontifex disliked they were clearly disobedient to
  their father。  In this case there was obviously only one course for
  a sensible man to take。  It consisted in checking the first signs of
  self…will while his children were too young to offer serious
  resistance。  If their wills were 〃well broken〃 in childhood; to use
  an expression then much in vogue; they would acquire habits of
  obedience which they would not venture to break through till they
  were over twenty…one years old。  Then they might please themselves;
  he should know how to protect himself; till then he and his money
  were more at their mercy than he liked。
  How little do we know our thoughtsour reflex actions indeed; yes;
  but our reflex reflections!  Man; forsooth; prides himself on his
  consciousness!  We boast that we differ from the winds and waves and
  falling stones and plants; which grow they know not why; and from
  the wandering creatures which go up and down after their prey; as we
  are pleased to say without the help of reason。  We know so well what
  we are doing ourselves and why we do it; do we not?  I fancy that
  there is some truth in the view which is being put forward nowadays;
  that it is our less conscious thoughts and our less conscious
  actions which mainly mould our lives and the lives of those who
  spring from us。
  CHAPTER VI
  Mr Pontifex was not the man to trouble himself much about his
  motives。  People were not so introspective then as we are now; they
  lived more according to a rule of thumb。  Dr Arnold had not yet sown
  that crop of earnest thinkers which we are now harvesting; and men
  did not see why they should not have their own way if no evil
  consequences to themselves seemed likely to follow upon their doing
  so。  Then as now; however; they sometimes let themselves in for more
  evil consequences than they had bargained for。
  Like other rich men at the beginning of this century he ate and
  drank a good deal more than was enough to keep him in health。  Even
  his excellent constitution was not proof against a prolonged course
  of overfeeding and what we should now consider overdrinking。  His
  liver would not unfrequently get out of order; and he would come
  down to breakfast looking yellow about the eyes。  Then the young
  people knew that they had better look out。  It is not as a general
  rule the eating of sour grapes that causes the children's teeth to
  be set on edge。  Well…to…do parents seldom eat many sour grapes; the
  danger to the children lies in the parents eating too many sweet
  ones。
  I grant that at first sight it seems very unjust; that the parents
  should have the fun and the children be punished for it; but young
  people should remember that for many years they were part and parcel
  of their parents and therefore had a good deal of the fun in the
  person of their parents。  If they have forgotten the fun now; that
  is no more than people do who have a headache after having been
  tipsy overnight。  The man with a headache does not pretend to be a
  different person from the man who got drunk; and claim that it is
  his self of the preceding night and not his self of this morning who
  should be punished; no more should offspring complain of the
  headache which it has earned when in the person of its parents; for
  the continuation of identity; though not so immediately apparent; is
  just as real in one case as in the other。  What is really hard is
  when the parents have the fun after the children have been born; and
  the children are punished for this。
  On these; his black days; he would take very gloomy views of things
  and say to himself that in spite of all his goodness to them his
  children did not love him。  But who can love any man whose liver is
  out of order?  How base; he would exclaim to himself; was such
  ingratitude!  How especially hard upon himself; who had been such a
  model son; and always honoured and obeyed his parents though they
  had not spent one hundredth part of the money upon him which he had
  lavished upon his own children。  〃It is always the same story;〃 he
  would say to himself; 〃the more young people have the more they
  want; and the less thanks one gets; I have made a great mistake; I
  have been far too lenient with my children; never mind; I have done
  my duty by them; and more; if they fail in theirs to me it is a
  matter between God and them。  I; at any rate; am guiltless。  Why; I
  might have married again and become the father of a second and
  perhaps more affectionate family; etc。; etc。〃  He pitied himself for
  the expensive education which he was giving his children; he did not
  see that the education cost the children far more than it cost him;
  inasmuch as it cost them the power of earning their living easily
  rather than helped them towards it; and ensured their being at the
  mercy of their father for years after they had come to an age when
  they should be independent。  A public school education cuts off a
  boy's retreat; he can no longer become a labourer or a mechanic; and
  these are the only people whose tenure of independence is not
  precariouswith the exception of course of those who are born
  inheritors of money or who are placed young in some safe and deep
  groove。  Mr Pontifex saw nothing of this; all he saw was that he was
  spending much more money upon his children than the law would have
  compelled him to do; and what more could you have?  Might he not
  have apprenticed both his sons to greengrocers?  Might he not even
  yet do so to…morrow morning if he were so minded?  The possibility
  of this course being adopted was a favourite topic with him when he
  was out of temper; true; he never did apprentice either of his sons
  to greengrocers; but his boys comparing notes together had sometimes
  come to the conclusion that they wished he would。
  At other times when not quite well he would have them in for the fun
  of shaking his will at them。  He would in his imagination cut them
  all out one after another and leave his money to found almshouses;
  till at last he was obliged to put them back; so that he might have
  the pleasure of cutting them out again the next time he was in a
  passion。
  Of course if young people allow their conduct to be in any way
  influenced by regard to the wills of living persons they are doing
  very wrong and must expect to be sufferers in the end; nevertheless
  the powers of will…dangling and will…shaking are so liable to abuse
  and are continually made so great an engine of torture that I would
  pass a law; if I could; to incapacitate any man from making a will
  for three months from the date of each offence in either of the
  above respects and let the bench of magistrates or judge; before
  whom he has been convicted; dispose of his property as they shall
  think right and reasonable if he dies during the time that his will…
  making power is suspended。
  Mr Pontifex would have the boys into the dining…room。  〃My dear
  John; my dear Theobald;〃 he would say; 〃look at me。  I began life
  with nothing but the clothes with which my father and mother sent me
  up to London。  My father gave me ten shillings and my mother five
  for pocket money and I thought them munificent。  I never asked my
  father for a shilling in the whole course of my life; nor took aught
  from him beyond the small sum he used to allow me monthly till I was
  in receipt of a salary。  I made my own way and I shall expect my
  sons to do the same。  Pray don't take it into your heads that I am
  going to wear my life out making money that my sons may spend it for
  me。  If you want money you must make it for yourselves as I did; for
  I give you my word I will not leave a penny to either of you unless
  you show that you deserve it。  Young people seem nowadays to expect
  all kinds of luxuries and indulgences which were never heard of when
  I was a boy。  Why; my father was a common carpenter; and here you
  are both of you at public schools; costing me ever so many hundreds
  a year; while I at your age was plodding away behind a desk in my
  Uncle Fairlie's counting house。  What should I not have done if I
  had had one half of your advantages?  You should become dukes or
  found new empires in undiscovered countries; and even then I doubt
  whether you would have done proportionately so much as I have done。
  No; no; I shall see you through school and college and then; if you
  please; you will make your own way in the world。〃
  In this manner he would work himself up into such a state of
  virtuous indignation that he would sometimes thrash the boys then
  and there upon some pretext invented at the moment。
  And yet; as children went; the young Pontifexes were fortunate;
  there would be ten families of young people worse off for one
  better; they ate and drank good wholesome food; slept in comfortable
  beds; had the best doctors to attend them when they were ill and the
  best education that could be had for money。  The want of fresh air
  does not seem much to affect the happiness of children in a London
  alley:  the greater part of them sing and play as though they were
  on a moor in Scotland。  So the absence of a genial mental atmosphere
  is n