a　paradise　compared　to　that　contact　with　a　millstone　under　which　her
  soul　was　ground　until　the　day　when　her　good　aunt；　her　true　mother；　had
  saved　her　from　this　misery；　the　ever…recurring　pain　of　which　she　now
  related　to　me；　misery　caused　sometimes　by　incessant　faultfinding；
  always　intolerable　to　high…strung　natures　which　do　not　shrink　before
  death　itself　but　die　beneath　the　sword　of　Damocles；　sometimes　by　the
  crushing　of　generous　impulses　beneath　an　icy　hand；　by　the　cold
  rebuffal　of　her　kisses；　by　a　stern　command　of　silence；　first　imposed
  and　then　as　often　blamed；　by　inward　tears　that　dared　not　flow　but
  stayed　within　the　heart；　in　short；　by　all　the　bitterness　and　tyranny
  of　convent　rule；　hidden　to　the　eyes　of　the　world　under　the　appearance
  of　an　exalted　motherly　devotion。　She　gratified　her　mother's　vanity
  before　strangers；　but　she　dearly　paid　in　private　for　this　homage。
  When；　believing　that　by　obedience　and　gentleness　she　had　softened　her
  mother's　heart；　she　opened　hers；　the　tyrant　only　armed　herself　with
  the　girl's　confidence。　No　spy　was　ever　more　traitorous　and　base。　All
  the　pleasures　of　girlhood；　even　her　fete　days；　were　dearly　purchased；
  for　she　was　scolded　for　her　gaiety　as　much　as　for　her　faults。　No
  teaching　and　no　training　for　her　position　had　been　given　in　love；
  always　with　sarcastic　irony。　She　was　not　angry　against　her　mother；　in
  fact　she　blamed　herself　for　feeling　more　terror　than　love　for　her。
  〃Perhaps；〃　she　said；　dear　angel；　〃these　severities　were　needful；　they
  had　certainly　prepared　her　for　her　present　life。〃　As　I　listened　it
  seemed　to　me　that　the　harp　of　Job；　from　which　I　had　drawn　such　savage
  sounds；　now　touched　by　the　Christian　fingers　gave　forth　the　litanies
  of　the　Virgin　at　the　foot　of　the　cross。
  〃We　lived　in　the　same　sphere　before　we　met　in　this；〃　I　said；　〃you
  coming　from　the　east；　I　from　the　west。〃
  She　shook　her　head　with　a　gesture　of　despair。
  〃To　you　the　east；　to　me　the　west；〃　she　replied。　〃You　will　live　happy；
  I　must　die　of　pain。　Life　is　what　we　make　of　it；　and　mine　is　made
  forever。　No　power　can　break　the　heavy　chain　to　which　a　woman　is
  fastened　by　this　ring　of　goldthe　emblem　of　a　wife's　purity。〃
  We　knew　we　were　twins　of　one　womb；　she　never　dreamed　of　a　half…
  confidence　between　brothers　of　the　same　blood。　After　a　short　sigh；
  natural　to　pure　hearts　when　they　first　open　to　each　other；　she　told　me
  of　her　first　married　life；　her　deceptions　and　disillusions；　the
  rebirth　of　her　childhood's　misery。　Like　me；　she　had　suffered　under
  trifles；　mighty　to　souls　whose　limpid　substance　quivers　to　the　least
  shock；　as　a　lake　quivers　on　the　surface　and　to　its　utmost　depths　when
  a　stone　is　flung　into　it。　When　she　married　she　possessed　some　girlish
  savings；　a　little　gold；　the　fruit　of　happy　hours　and　repressed
  fancies。　These；　in　a　moment　when　they　were　needed；　she　gave　to　her
  husband；　not　telling　him　they　were　gifts　and　savings　of　her　own。　He
  took　no　account　of　them；　and　never　regarded　himself　her　debtor。　She
  did　not　even　obtain　the　glance　of　thanks　that　would　have　paid　for　all。
  Ah！　how　she　went　from　trial　to　trial！　Monsieur　de　Mortsauf　habitually
  neglected　to　give　her　money　for　the　household。　When；　after　a　struggle
  with　her　timidity；　she　asked　him　for　it；　he　seemed　surprised　and　never
  once　spared　her　the　mortification　of　petitioning　for　necessities。　What
  terror　filled　her　mind　when　the　real　nature　of　the　ruined　man's
  disease　was　revealed　to　her；　and　she　quailed　under　the　first　outbreak
  of　his　mad　anger！　What　bitter　reflections　she　had　made　before　she
  brought　herself　to　admit　that　her　husband　was　a　wreck！　What　horrible
  calamities　had　come　of　her　bearing　children！　What　anguish　she　felt　at
  the　sight　of　those　infants　born　almost　dead！　With　what　courage　had　she
  said　in　her　heart：　〃I　will　breathe　the　breath　of　life　into　them；　I
  will　bear　them　anew　day　by　day！〃　Then　conceive　the　bitterness　of
  finding　her　greatest　obstacle　in　the　heart　and　hand　from　which　a　wife
  should　draw　her　greatest　succor！　She　saw　the　untold　disaster　that
  threatened　him。　As　each　difficulty　was　conquered；　new　deserts　opened
  before　her；　until　the　day　when　she　thoroughly　understood　her　husband's
  condition；　the　constitution　of　her　children；　and　the　character　of　the
  neighborhood　in　which　she　lived；　a　day　when　（like　the　child　taken　by
  Napoleon　from　a　tender　home）　she　taught　her　feet　to　trample　through
  mud　and　snow；　she　trained　her　nerves　to　bullets　and　all　her　being　to
  the　passive　obedience　of　a　soldier。
  These　things；　of　which　I　here　make　a　summary；　she　told　me　in　all　their
  dark　extent；　with　every　piteous　detail　of　conjugal　battles　lost　and
  fruitless　struggles。
  〃You　would　have　to　live　here　many　months；〃　she　said；　in　conclusion；
  〃to　understand　what　difficulties　I　have　met　with　in　improving
  Clochegourde；　what　persuasions　I　have　had　to　use　to　make　him　do　a
  thing　which　was　most　important　to　his　interests。　You　cannot　imagine
  the　childish　glee　he　has　shown　when　anything　that　I　advised　was　not　at
  once　successful。　All　that　turned　out　well　he　claimed　for　himself。　Yes；
  I　need　an　infinite　patience　to　bear　his　complaints　when　I　am　half…
  exhausted　in　the　effort　to　amuse　his　weary　hours；　to　sweeten　his　life
  and　smooth　the　paths　which　he　himself　has　strewn　with　stones。　The
  reward　he　gives　me　is　that　awful　cry：　'Let　me　die；　life　is　a　burden　to
  me！'　When　visitors　are　here　and　he　enjoys　them；　he　forgets　his　gloom
  and　is　courteous　and　polite。　You　ask　me　why　he　cannot　be　so　to　his
  family。　I　cannot　explain　that　want　of　loyalty　in　a　man　who　is　truly
  chivalrous。　He　is　quite　capable　of　riding　at　full　speed　to　Paris　to
  buy　me　a　set　of　ornaments；　as　he　did　the　other　day　before　the　ball。
  Miserly　in　his　household；　he　would　be　lavish　upon　me　if　I　wished　it。　I
  would　it　were　reversed；　I　need　nothing　for　myself；　but　the　wants　of
  the　household　are　many。　In　my　strong　desire　to　make　him　happy；　and　not
  reflecting　that　I　might　be　a　mother；　I　began　my　married　life　by
  letting　him　treat　me　as　a　victim；　I；　who　at　that　time　by　using　a　few
  caresses　could　have　led　him　like　a　childbut　I　was　unable　to　play　a
  part　I　should　have　thought　disgraceful。　Now；　however；　the　welfare　of
  my　family　requires　me　to　be　as　calm　and　stern　as　the　figure　of　Justice
  and　yet；　I　too　have　a　heart　that　overflows　with　tenderness。〃
  〃But　why；〃　I　said；　〃do　you　not　use　this　great　influence　to　master　him
  and　govern　him？〃
  〃If　it　concerned　myself　only　I　should　not　attempt　either　to　overcome
  the　dogged　silence　with　which　for　days　together　he　meets　my　arguments；
  nor　to　answer　his　irrational　remarks；　his　childish　reasons。　I　have　no
  courage　against　weakness；　any　more　than　I　have　against　childhood；　they
  may　strike　me　as　they　will；　I　cannot　resist。　Perhaps　I　might　meet
  strength　with　strength；　but　I　am　powerless　against　those　I　pity。　If　I
  were　required　to　coerce　Madeleine　in　some　matter　that　would　save　her
  life；　I　should　die　with　her。　Pity　relaxes　all　my　fibres　and　unstrings
  my　nerves。　So　it　is　that　the　violent　shocks　of　the　last　ten　years　have
  broken　me　down；　my　feelings；　so　often　battered；　are　numb　at　times；
  nothing　can　revive　them；　even　the　courage　with　which　I　once　faced　my
  troubles　begins　to　fail　me。　Yes；　sometimes　I　am　beaten。　For　want　of
  restI　mean　reposeand　sea…baths　by　which　to　recover　my　nervous
  strength；　I　shall　perish。　Monsieur　de　Mortsauf　will　have　killed　me；
  and　he　will　die　of　my　death。〃
  〃Why　not　leave　Clochegourde　for　a　few　months？　Surely　you　could　take
  your　children　and　go　to　the　seashore。〃
  〃In　the　first　place；　Monsieur　de　Mortsauf　would　think　he　were　lost　if
  I　left　him。　Though　he　will　not　admit　his　condition　he　is　well　aware　of
  it。　He　is　both　sane　and　mad；　two　natures　in　one　man；　a　contradiction
  which　explains　many　an　irrational　action。　Besides　this；　he　would　have
  good　reason　for　objecting。　Nothing　would　go　right　here　if　I　were
  absent。　You　may　have　seen　in　me　the　mother　of　a　family　watchful　to
  protect　her　young　from　the　hawk　that　is　hovering　over　them；　a　weighty
  task；　indeed；　but　harder　still　are　the　cares　imposed　upon　me　by
  Monsieur　de　Mortsauf；　whose　constant　cry；　as　he　follows　me　about　is；
  'Where　is　Madame？'　I　am　Jacques'　tutor　and　Madeleine's　governess；　but
  that　is　not　all；　I　am　bailiff　and　steward　too。　You　will　understand
  what　that　means　when　you　come　to　see；　as　you　will；　that　the　working　of
  an　estate　in　these　parts　is　the　most　fatiguing　of　all　employments。　We
  get　small　returns　in　money；　the　farms　are　cultivated　on　shares；　a
  system　which　needs　the　closest　supervision。　We　are　obliged　ourselves
  to　sell　our　own　produce；　our　cattle　and　harvests　of　all　kinds。　Our
  competitors　in　the　markets　are　our　own　farmers；　who　meet　consumers　in
  the　wine…shops　and　determine　prices　by　selling　first。　I　should　weary
  you　if　I　explained　the　many　difficulties　of　agriculture　in　this
  region。　No　matter　what　care　I　give　to　it；　I　cannot　always　prevent　our
  tenants　from　putting　our　manure　upon　their　ground；　I　cannot　be　ever　on
  the　watch