第 53 节
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  manner in which he assisted a supposed lady in crossing Fleet
  Street。  He gave her his arm; and led her across; not observing
  that she was in liquor at the time。  But the spirit of the act was
  not the less kind on that account。  On the other hand; the conduct
  of the bookseller on whom Johnson once called to solicit
  employment; and who; regarding his athletic but uncouth person;
  told him he had better 〃go buy a porter's knot and carry trunks;〃
  in howsoever bland tones the advice might have been communicated;
  was simply brutal。
  While captiousness of manner; and the habit of disputing and
  contradicting everything said; is chilling and repulsive; the
  opposite habit of assenting to; and sympathising with; every
  statement made; or emotion expressed; is almost equally
  disagreeable。  It is unmanly; and is felt to be dishonest。 〃It may
  seem difficult;〃 says Richard Sharp; 〃to steer always between
  bluntness and plain…dealing; between giving merited praise and
  lavishing indiscriminate flattery; but it is very easygood…
  humour; kindheartedness; and perfect simplicity; being all that
  are requisite to do what is right in the right way。〃 (3)
  At the same time; many are unpolitenot because they mean to be
  so; but because they are awkward; and perhaps know no better。
  Thus; when Gibbon had published the second and third volumes of
  his 'Decline and Fall;' the Duke of Cumberland met him one day;
  and accosted him with; 〃How do you do; Mr。 Gibbon?  I see you
  are always AT IT in the old waySCRIBBLE; SCRIBBLE; SCRIBBLE!〃
  The Duke probably intended to pay the author a compliment;
  but did not know how better to do it; than in this blunt and
  apparently rude way。
  Again; many persons are thought to be stiff; reserved; and proud;
  when they are only shy。  Shyness is characteristic of most people
  of Teutonic race。  It has been styled 〃the English mania;〃 but it
  pervades; to a greater or less degree; all the Northern nations。
  The ordinary Englishman; when he travels abroad; carries his
  shyness with him。  He is stiff; awkward; ungraceful;
  undemonstrative; and apparently unsympathetic; and though he may
  assume a brusqueness of manner; the shyness is there; and cannot
  be wholly concealed。  The naturally graceful and intensely social
  French cannot understand such a character; and the Englishman is
  their standing jokethe subject of their most ludicrous
  caricatures。  George Sand attributes the rigidity of the natives
  of Albion to a stock of FLUIDE BRITANNIQUE which they carry about
  with them; that renders them impassive under all circumstances;
  and 〃as impervious to the atmosphere of the regions they traverse
  as a mouse in the centre of an exhausted receiver。〃 (4)
  The average Frenchman or Irishman excels the average Englishman;
  German; or American in courtesy and ease of manner; simply because
  it is his nature。  They are more social and less self…dependent
  than men of Teutonic origin; more demonstrative and less reticent;
  they are more communicative; conversational; and freer in their
  intercourse with each other in all respects; whilst men of German
  race are comparatively stiff; reserved; shy; and awkward。  At the
  same time; a people may exhibit ease; gaiety; and sprightliness of
  character; and yet possess no deeper qualities calculated to
  inspire respect。  They may have every grace of manner; and yet be
  heartless; frivolous; selfish。  The character may be on the
  surface only; and without any solid qualities for a foundation。
  There can be no doubt as to which of the two sorts of peoplethe
  easy and graceful; or the stiff and awkwardit is most agreeable
  to meet; either in business; in society; or in the casual
  intercourse of life。  Which make the fastest friends; the truest
  men of their word; the most conscientious performers of their
  duty; is an entirely different matter。
  The dry GAUCHE Englishmanto use the French phrase; L'ANGLAIS
  EMPETREis certainly a somewhat disagreeable person to meet at
  first。 He looks as if he had swallowed a poker。  He is shy
  himself; and the cause of shyness in others。  He is stiff; not
  because he is proud; but because he is shy; and he cannot shake it
  off; even if he would。  Indeed; we should not be surprised to find
  that even the clever writer who describes the English Philistine
  in all his enormity of awkward manner and absence of grace; were
  himself as shy as a bat。
  When two shy men meet; they seem like a couple of icicles。  They
  sidle away and turn their backs on each other in a room; or when
  travelling creep into the opposite corners of a railway…carriage。
  When shy Englishmen are about to start on a journey by railway;
  they walk along the train; to discover an empty compartment in
  which to bestow themselves; and when once ensconced; they inwardly
  hate the next man who comes in。  So; on entering the dining…room
  of their club; each shy man looks out for an unoccupied table;
  until sometimesall the tables in the room are occupied by
  single diners。  All this apparent unsociableness is merely shyness
  the national characteristic of the Englishman。
  〃The disciples of Confucius;〃 observes Mr。 Arthur Helps; 〃say that
  when in the presence of the prince; his manner displayed
  RESPECTFUL UNEASINESS。  There could hardly be given any two words
  which more fitly describe the manner of most Englishmen when in
  society。〃  Perhaps it is due to this feeling that Sir Henry
  Taylor; in his 'Statesman;' recommends that; in the management of
  interviews; the minister should be as 〃near to the door〃 as
  possible; and; instead of bowing his visitor out; that he should
  take refuge; at the end of an interview; in the adjoining room。
  〃Timid and embarrassed men;〃 he says; 〃will sit as if they were
  rooted to the spot; when they are conscious that they have to
  traverse the length of a room in their retreat。  In every case; an
  interview will find a more easy and pleasing termination WHEN THE
  DOOR IS AT HAND as the last words are spoken。〃 (5)
  The late Prince Albert; one of the gentlest and most amiable; was
  also one of the most retiring of men。  He struggled much against
  his sense of shyness; but was never able either to conquer or
  conceal it。  His biographer; in explaining its causes; says: 〃It
  was the shyness of a very delicate nature; that is not sure it
  will please; and is without the confidence and the vanity which
  often go to form characters that are outwardly more genial。〃 (6)
  But the Prince shared this defect with some of the greatest of
  Englishmen。  Sir Isaac Newton was probably the shyest man of his
  age。  He kept secret for a time some of his greatest discoveries;
  for fear of the notoriety they might bring him。  His discovery of
  the Binomial Theorem and its most important applications; as well
  as his still greater discovery of the Law of Gravitation; were not
  published for years after they were made; and when he communicated
  to Collins his solution of the theory of the moon's rotation round
  the earth; he forbade him to insert his name in connection with
  it in the 'Philosophical Transactions;' saying: 〃It would;
  perhaps; increase my acquaintancethe thing which I chiefly
  study to decline。〃
  From all that can be learnt of Shakspeare; it is to be inferred
  that he was an exceedingly shy man。  The manner in which his plays
  were sent into the worldfor it is not known that he edited or
  authorized the publication of a single one of themand the dates
  at which they respectively appeared; are mere matters of
  conjecture。  His appearance in his own plays in second and even
  third…rate partshis indifference to reputation; and even his
  apparent aversion to be held in repute by his contemporarieshis
  disappearance from London (the seat and centre of English
  histrionic art) so soon as he had realised a moderate competency
  and his retirement about the age of forty; for the remainder of
  his days; to a life of obscurity in a small town in the midland
  countiesall seem to unite in proving the shrinking nature of
  the man; and his unconquerable shyness。
  It is also probable that; besides being shyand his shyness may;
  like that of Byron; have been increased by his limpShakspeare
  did not possess in any high degree the gift of hope。  It is a
  remarkable circumstance; that whilst the great dramatist has; in
  the course of his writings; copiously illustrated all other gifts;
  affections; and virtues; the passages are very rare in which Hope
  is mentioned; and then it is usually in a desponding and
  despairing tone; as when he says:
  〃The miserable hath no other medicine; But only Hope。〃
  Many of his sonnets breathe the spirit of despair and
  hopelessness。 (7)  He laments his lameness; (8) apologizes for his
  profession as an actor; (9) expresses his 〃fear of trust〃 in
  himself; and his hopeless; perhaps misplaced; affection; (10)
  anticipates a 〃coffin'd doom;〃 and utters his profoundly pathetic
  cry 〃for restful death。〃
  It might na