第 47 节
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  It has been said that men succeed in life quite as much by their
  temper as by their talents。  However this may be; it is certain
  that their happiness in life depends mainly upon their equanimity
  of disposition; their patience and forbearance; and their kindness
  and thoughtfulness for those about them。  It is really true what
  Plato says; that in seeking the good of others we find our own。
  There are some natures so happily constituted that they can find
  good in everything。  There is no calamity so great but they can
  educe comfort or consolation from itno sky so black but they
  can discover a gleam of sunshine issuing through it from some
  quarter or another; and if the sun be not visible to their eyes;
  they at least comfort themselves with the thought that it IS
  there; though veiled from them for some good and wise purpose。
  Such happy natures are to be envied。  They have a beam in the eye
  a beam of pleasure; gladness; religious cheerfulness;
  philosophy; call it what you will。  Sunshine is about their
  hearts; and their mind gilds with its own hues all that it looks
  upon。  When they have burdens to bear; they bear them cheerfully
  not repining; nor fretting; nor wasting their energies in useless
  lamentation; but struggling onward manfully; gathering up such
  flowers as lie along their path。
  Let it not for a moment be supposed that men such as those we
  speak of are weak and unreflective。  The largest and most
  comprehensive natures are generally also the most cheerful; the
  most loving; the most hopeful; the most trustful。  It is the wise
  man; of large vision; who is the quickest to discern the moral
  sunshine gleaming through the darkest cloud。  In present evil he
  sees prospective good; in pain; he recognises the effort of nature
  to restore health; in trials; he finds correction and discipline;
  and in sorrow and suffering; he gathers courage; knowledge; and
  the best practical wisdom。
  When Jeremy Taylor had lost allwhen his house had been
  plundered; and his family driven out…of…doors; and all his worldly
  estate had been sequestratedhe could still write thus: 〃I am
  fallen into the hands of publicans and sequestrators; and they
  have taken all from me; what now?  Let me look about me。  They
  have left me the sun and moon; a loving wife; and many friends to
  pity me; and some to relieve me; and I can still discourse; and;
  unless I list; they have not taken away my merry countenance and
  my cheerful spirit; and a good conscience; they have still left me
  the providence of God; and all the promises of the Gospel; and my
  religion; and my hopes of heaven; and my charity to them; too; and
  still I sleep and digest; I eat and drink; I read and meditate。。。。
  And he that hath so many causes of joy; and so great; is very much
  in love with sorrow and peevishness; who loves all these
  pleasures; and chooses to sit down upon his little handful
  of thorns。〃 (1)
  Although cheerfulness of disposition is very much a matter of
  inborn temperament; it is also capable of being trained and
  cultivated like any other habit。  We may make the best of life; or
  we may make the worst of it; and it depends very much upon
  ourselves whether we extract joy or misery from it。  There are
  always two sides of life on which we can look; according as we
  choosethe bright side or the gloomy。  We can bring the power of
  the will to bear in making the choice; and thus cultivate the
  habit of being happy or the reverse。  We can encourage the
  disposition of looking at the brightest side of things; instead of
  the darkest。 And while we see the cloud; let us not shut our eyes
  to the silver lining。
  The beam in the eye sheds brightness; beauty; and joy upon life in
  all its phases。  It shines upon coldness; and warms it; upon
  suffering; and comforts it; upon ignorance; and enlightens it;
  upon sorrow; and cheers it。  The beam in the eye gives lustre to
  intellect; and brightens beauty itself。  Without it the sunshine
  of life is not felt; flowers bloom in vain; the marvels of heaven
  and earth are not seen or acknowledged; and creation is but a
  dreary; lifeless; soulless blank。
  While cheerfulness of disposition is a great source of enjoyment
  in life; it is also a great safeguard of character。  A devotional
  writer of the present day; in answer to the question; How are we
  to overcome temptations? says: 〃Cheerfulness is the first thing;
  cheerfulness is the second; and cheerfulness is the third。〃  It
  furnishes the best soil for the growth of goodness and virtue。  It
  gives brightness of heart and elasticity of spirit。  It is the
  companion of charity; the nurse of patience the mother of wisdom。
  It is also the best of moral and mental tonics。  〃The best cordial
  of all;〃 said Dr。 Marshall Hall to one of his patients; 〃is
  cheerfulness。〃  And Solomon has said that 〃a merry heart doeth
  good like a medicine。〃  When Luther was once applied to for a
  remedy against melancholy; his advice was: 〃Gaiety and courage
  innocent gaiety; and rational honourable courageare the best
  medicine for young men; and for old men; too; for all men against
  sad thoughts。〃 (2)  Next to music; if not before it; Luther loved
  children and flowers。  The great gnarled man had a heart as
  tender as a woman's。
  Cheerfulness is also an excellent wearing quality。  It has been
  called the bright weather of the heart。  It gives harmony of soul;
  and is a perpetual song without words。  It is tantamount to
  repose。  It enables nature to recruit its strength; whereas worry
  and discontent debilitate it; involving constant wear…and…tear。
  How is it that we see such men as Lord Palmerston growing old in
  harness; working on vigorously to the end?  Mainly through
  equanimity of temper and habitual cheerfulness。  They have
  educated themselves in the habit of endurance; of not being easily
  provoked; of bearing and forbearing; of hearing harsh and even
  unjust things said of them without indulging in undue resentment;
  and avoiding worreting; petty; and self…tormenting cares。  An
  intimate friend of Lord Palmerston; who observed him closely for
  twenty years; has said that he never saw him angry; with perhaps
  one exception; and that was when the ministry responsible for the
  calamity in Affghanistan; of which he was one; were unjustly
  accused by their opponents of falsehood; perjury; and wilful
  mutilation of public documents。
  So far as can be learnt from biography; men of the greatest genius
  have been for the most part cheerful; contented mennot eager
  for reputation; money; or powerbut relishing life; and keenly
  susceptible of enjoyment; as we find reflected in their works。
  Such seem to have been Homer; Horace; Virgil; Montaigne;
  Shakspeare; Cervantes。  Healthy serene cheerfulness is apparent in
  their great creations。  Among the same class of cheerful…minded
  men may also be mentioned Luther; More; Bacon; Leonardo da Vinci;
  Raphael; and Michael Angelo。  Perhaps they were happy because
  constantly occupied; and in the pleasantest of all workthat of
  creating out of the fulness and richness of their great minds。
  Milton; too; though a man of many trials and sufferings; must
  have been a man of great cheerfulness and elasticity of nature。
  Though overtaken by blindness; deserted by friends; and fallen
  upon evil days〃darkness before and danger's voice behind〃
  yet did he not bate heart or hope; but 〃still bore up and
  steered right onward。〃
  Henry Fielding was a man borne down through life by debt; and
  difficulty; and bodily suffering; and yet Lady Mary Wortley
  Montague has said of him that; by virtue of his cheerful
  disposition; she was persuaded he 〃had known more happy moments
  than any person on earth。〃
  Dr。 Johnson; through all his trials and sufferings and hard fights
  with fortune; was a courageous and cheerful…natured man。  He
  manfully made the best of life; and tried to be glad in it。  Once;
  when a clergyman was complaining of the dulness of society in the
  country; saying 〃they only talk of runts〃 (young cows); Johnson
  felt flattered by the observation of Mrs。 Thrale's mother; who
  said; 〃Sir; Dr。 Johnson would learn to talk of runts〃meaning
  that he was a man who would make the most of his situation;
  whatever it was。
  Johnson was of opinion that a man grew better as he grew older;
  and that his nature mellowed with age。  This is certainly a much
  more cheerful view of human nature than that of Lord Chesterfield;
  who saw life through the eyes of a cynic; and held that 〃the heart
  never grows better by age: it only grows harder。〃  But both
  sayings may be true according to the point from which life is
  viewed; and the temper by which a man is governed; for while the
  good; profiting by experience; and disciplining themselves by
  self…control; will grow better; the ill…conditioned; uninfluenced
  by experience; will only grow worse。
  Sir Walter Scott was a man full of the milk of human kindness。
  Everybody loved him。