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  who had been trained in self…discipline; were far less frequent
  victims to the malady。
  Although the moral character depends in a great degree on
  temperament and on physical health; as well as on domestic and
  early training and the example of companions; it is also in the
  power of each individual to regulate; to restrain; and to
  discipline it by watchful and persevering self…control。  A
  competent teacher has said of the propensities and habits; that
  they are as teachable as Latin and Greek; while they are much more
  essential to happiness。
  Dr。 Johnson; though himself constitutionally prone to melancholy;
  and afflicted by it as few have been from his earliest years; said
  that 〃a man's being in a good or bad humour very much depends upon
  his will。〃  We may train ourselves in a habit of patience and
  contentment on the one hand; or of grumbling and discontent on the
  other。  We may accustom ourselves to exaggerate small evils; and
  to underestimate great blessings。  We may even become the victim
  of petty miseries by giving way to them。  Thus; we may educate
  ourselves in a happy disposition; as well as in a morbid one。
  Indeed; the habit of viewing things cheerfully; and of thinking
  about life hopefully; may be made to grow up in us like any other
  habit。 (2)  It was not an exaggerated estimate of Dr。 Johnson to
  say; that the habit of looking at the best side of any event is
  worth far more than a thousand pounds a year。
  Th religious man's life is pervaded by rigid self…discipline and
  self…restraint。  He is to be sober and vigilant; to eschew evil
  and do good; to walk in the spirit; to be obedient unto death; to
  withstand in the evil day; and having done all; to stand; to
  wrestle against spiritual wickedness; and against the rulers of
  the darkness of this world; to be rooted and built up in faith;
  and not to be weary of well…doing; for in due season he shall
  reap; if he faint not。
  The man of business also must needs be subject to strict rule and
  system。  Business; like life; is managed by moral leverage;
  success in both depending in no small degree upon that regulation
  of temper and careful self…discipline; which give a wise man not
  only a command over himself; but over others。  Forbearance and
  self…control smooth the road of life; and open many ways which
  would otherwise remain closed。  And so does self…respect: for as
  men respect themselves; so will they usually respect the
  personality of others。
  It is the same in politics as in business。  Success in that sphere
  of life is achieved less by talent than by temper; less by genius
  than by character。  If a man have not self…control; he will lack
  patience; be wanting in tact; and have neither the power of
  governing himself nor of managing others。  When the quality most
  needed in a Prime Minister was the subject of conversation in the
  presence of Mr。 Pitt; one of the speakers said it was 〃Eloquence;〃
  another said it was 〃Knowledge;〃 and a third said it was 〃Toil;〃
  〃No;〃 said Pitt; 〃it is Patience!〃 And patience means self…
  control; a quality in which he himself was superb。  His friend
  George Rose has said of him that he never once saw Pitt out of
  temper。 (3)  Yet; although patience is usually regarded as a
  〃slow〃 virtue; Pitt combined with it the most extraordinary
  readiness; vigour; and rapidity of thought as well as action。
  It is by patience and self…control that the truly heroic character
  is perfected。  These were among the most prominent characteristics
  of the great Hampden; whose noble qualities were generously
  acknowledged even by his political enemies。  Thus Clarendon
  described him as a man of rare temper and modesty; naturally
  cheerful and vivacious; and above all; of a flowing courtesy。  He
  was kind and intrepid; yet gentle; of unblameable conversation;
  and his heart glowed with love to all men。  He was not a man of
  many words; but; being of unimpeachable character; every word he
  uttered carried weight。  〃No man had ever a greater power over
  himself。。。。  He was very temperate in diet; and a supreme governor
  over all his passions and affections; and he had thereby great
  power over other men's。〃  Sir Philip Warwick; another of his
  political opponents; incidentally describes his great influence in
  a certain debate: 〃We had catched at each other's locks; and
  sheathed our swords in each other's bowels; had not the sagacity
  and great calmness of Mr。 Hampden; by a short speech; prevented
  it; and led us to defer our angry debate until the next morning。〃
  A strong temper is not necessarily a bad temper。  But the stronger
  the temper; the greater is the need of self…discipline and self…
  control。  Dr。 Johnson says men grow better as they grow older; and
  improve with experience; but this depends upon the width; and
  depth; and generousness of their nature。  It is not men's faults
  that ruin them so much as the manner in which they conduct
  themselves after the faults have been committed。  The wise will
  profit by the suffering they cause; and eschew them for the
  future; but there are those on whom experience exerts no ripening
  influence; and who only grow narrower and bitterer and more
  vicious with time。
  What is called strong temper in a young man; often indicates a
  large amount of unripe energy; which will expend itself in useful
  work if the road be fairly opened to it。  It is said of Stephen
  Gerard; a Frenchman; who pursued a remarkably successful career in
  the United States; that when he heard of a clerk with a strong
  temper; he would readily take him into his employment; and set him
  to work in a room by himself; Gerard being of opinion that such
  persons were the best workers; and that their energy would expend
  itself in work if removed from the temptation to quarrel。
  Strong temper may only mean a strong and excitable will。
  Uncontrolled; it displays itself in fitful outbreaks of passion;
  but controlled and held in subjectionlike steam pent…up within
  the organised mechanism of a steam…engine; the use of which is
  regulated and controlled by slide…valves and governors and levers
  it may become a source of energetic power and usefulness。
  Hence; some of the greatest characters in history have been men of
  strong temper; but of equally strong determination to hold their
  motive power under strict regulation and control。
  The famous Earl of Strafford was of an extremely choleric and
  passionate nature; and had great struggles with himself in his
  endeavours to control his temper。  Referring to the advice of one
  of his friends; old Secretary Cooke; who was honest enough to tell
  him of his weakness; and to caution him against indulging it; he
  wrote: 〃You gave me a good lesson to be patient; and; indeed; my
  years and natural inclinations give me heat more than enough;
  which; however; I trust more experience shall cool; and a watch
  over myself in time altogether overcome; in the meantime; in this
  at least it will set forth itself more pardonable; because my
  earnestness shall ever be for the honour; justice; and profit of
  my master; and it is not always anger; but the misapplying of it;
  that is the vice so blameable; and of disadvantage to those that
  let themselves loose there…unto。〃 (4)
  Cromwell; also; is described as having been of a wayward and
  violent temper in his youthcross; untractable; and masterless
  with a vast quantity of youthful energy; which exploded in a
  variety of youthful mischiefs。  He even obtained the reputation of
  a roysterer in his native town; and seemed to be rapidly going to
  the bad; when religion; in one of its most rigid forms; laid hold
  upon his strong nature; and subjected it to the iron discipline of
  Calvinism。  An entirely new direction was thus given to his energy
  of temperament; which forced an outlet for itself into public
  life; and eventually became the dominating influence in England
  for a period of nearly twenty years。
  The heroic princes of the House of Nassau were all distinguished
  for the same qualities of self…control; self…denial; and
  determination of purpose。  William the Silent was so called; not
  because he was a taciturn manfor he was an eloquent and
  powerful speaker where eloquence was necessarybut because he
  was a man who could hold his tongue when it was wisdom not to
  speak; and because he carefully kept his own counsel when to have
  revealed it might have been dangerous to the liberties of his
  country。  He was so gentle and conciliatory in his manner that his
  enemies even described him as timid and pusillanimous。  Yet; when
  the time for action came; his courage was heroic; his
  determination unconquerable。  〃The rock in the ocean;〃 says
  Mr。 Motley; the historian of the Netherlands; 〃tranquil amid
  raging billows; was the favourite emblem by which his friends
  expressed their sense of his firmness。〃
  Mr。 Motley compares William the Silent to Washington; whom he in
  many respects resembled。  The American; like the Du