第 10 节
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  referred to her noble example and precepts as the ruling
  influence in his life。
  One of the most charming features in the character of Samuel
  Johnson; notwithstanding his rough and shaggy exterior; was the
  tenderness with which he invariably spoke of his mother (5)a
  woman of strong understanding; who firmly implanted in his mind;
  as he himself acknowledges; his first impressions of religion。  He
  was accustomed; even in the time of his greatest difficulties; to
  contribute largely; out of his slender means; to her comfort; and
  one of his last acts of filial duty was to write 'Rasselas'
  for the purpose of paying her little debts and defraying
  her funeral charges。
  George Washington was only eleven years of agethe eldest of
  five childrenwhen his father died; leaving his mother a widow。
  She was a woman of rare excellencefull of resources; a good
  woman of business; an excellent manager; and possessed of much
  strength of character。  She had her children to educate and bring
  up; a large household to govern; and extensive estates to manage;
  all of which she accomplished with complete success。  Her good
  sense; assiduity; tenderness; industry; and vigilance; enabled her
  to overcome every obstacle; and as the richest reward of her
  solicitude and toil; she had the happiness to see all her children
  come forward with a fair promise into life; filling the spheres
  allotted to them in a manner equally honourable to themselves; and
  to the parent who had been the only guide of their; principles;
  conduct; and habits。 (6)
  The biographer of Cromwell says little about the Protector's
  father; but dwells upon the character of his mother; whom he
  describes as a woman of rare vigour and decision of purpose: 〃A
  woman;〃 he says; 〃possessed of the glorious faculty of self…help
  when other assistance failed her; ready for the demands of fortune
  in its extremest adverse turn; of spirit and energy equal to her
  mildness and patience; who; with the labour of her own hands; gave
  dowries to five daughters sufficient to marry them into families
  as honourable but more wealthy than their own; whose single pride
  was honesty; and whose passion was love; who preserved in the
  gorgeous palace at Whitehall the simple tastes that distinguished
  her in the old brewery at Huntingdon; and whose only care; amidst
  all her splendour; was for the safety of her son in his dangerous
  eminence。〃 (7)
  We have spoken of the mother of Napoleon Buonaparte as a woman of
  great force of character。  Not less so was the mother of the Duke
  of Wellington; whom her son strikingly resembled in features;
  person; and character; while his father was principally
  distinguished as a musical composer and performer。 (8) But;
  strange to say; Wellington's mother mistook him for a dunce; and;
  for some reason or other; he was not such a favourite as her other
  children; until his great deeds in after…life constrained her to
  be proud of him。
  The Napiers were blessed in both parents; but especially in their
  mother; Lady Sarah Lennox; who early sought to inspire her sons'
  minds with elevating thoughts; admiration of noble deeds; and a
  chivalrous spirit; which became embodied in their lives; and
  continued to sustain them; until death; in the path of duty
  and of honour。
  Among statesmen; lawyers; and divines; we find marked mention made
  of the mothers of Lord Chancellors Bacon; Erskine; and Brougham
  all women of great ability; and; in the case of the first; of
  great learning; as well as of the mothers of Canning; Curran; and
  President Adamsof Herbert; Paley; and Wesley。  Lord Brougham
  speaks in terms almost approaching reverence of his grandmother;
  the sister of Professor Robertson; as having been mainly
  instrumental in instilling into his mind a strong desire for
  information; and the first principles of that persevering energy
  in the pursuit of every kind of knowledge which formed his
  prominent characteristic throughout life。
  Canning's mother was an Irishwoman of great natural ability; for
  whom her gifted son entertained the greatest love and respect to
  the close of his career。  She was a woman of no ordinary
  intellectual power。  〃Indeed;〃 says Canning's biographer; 〃were we
  not otherwise assured of the fact from direct sources; it would be
  impossible to contemplate his profound and touching devotion to
  her; without being led to conclude that the object of such
  unchanging attachment must have been possessed of rare and
  commanding qualities。  She was esteemed by the circle in which she
  lived; as a woman of great mental energy。  Her conversation was
  animated and vigorous; and marked by a distinct originality of
  manner and a choice of topics fresh and striking; and out of the
  commonplace routine。  To persons who were but slightly acquainted
  with her; the energy of her manner had even something of the air
  of eccentricity。〃 (9)
  Curran speaks with great affection of his mother; as a woman of
  strong original understanding; to whose wise counsel; consistent
  piety; and lessons of honourable ambition; which she diligently
  enforced on the minds of her children; he himself principally
  attributed his success in life。  〃The only inheritance;〃 he used
  to say; 〃that I could boast of from my poor father; was the very
  scanty one of an unattractive face and person; like his own; and
  if the world has ever attributed to me something more valuable
  than face or person; or than earthly wealth; it was that another
  and a dearer parent gave her child a portion from the treasure
  of her mind。〃 (10)
  When ex…President Adams was present at the examination of a girls'
  school at Boston; he was presented by the pupils with an address
  which deeply affected him; and in acknowledging it; he took the
  opportunity of referring to the lasting influence which womanly
  training and association had exercised upon his own life and
  character。  〃As a child;〃 he said; 〃I enjoyed perhaps the greatest
  of blessings that can be bestowed on manthat of a mother; who
  was anxious and capable to form the characters of her children
  rightly。  From her I derived whatever instruction (religious
  especially; and moral) has pervaded a long lifeI will not say
  perfectly; or as it ought to be; but I will say; because it is
  only justice to the memory of her I revere; that; in the course of
  that life; whatever imperfection there has been; or deviation from
  what she taught me; the fault is mine; and not hers。〃
  The Wesleys were peculiarly linked to their parents by natural
  piety; though the mother; rather than the father; influenced their
  minds and developed their characters。  The father was a man of
  strong will; but occasionally harsh and tyrannical in his dealings
  with his family; (11) while the mother; with much strength of
  understanding and ardent love of truth; was gentle; persuasive;
  affectionate; and simple。  She was the teacher and cheerful
  companion of her children; who gradually became moulded by her
  example。  It was through the bias given by her to her sons' minds
  in religious matters that they acquired the tendency which; even
  in early years; drew to them the name of Methodists。  In a letter
  to her son; Samuel Wesley; when a scholar at Westminster in 1709;
  she said: 〃I would advise you as much as possible to throw your
  business into a certain METHOD; by which means you will learn to
  improve every precious moment; and find an unspeakable facility in
  the performance of your respective duties。〃  This 〃method〃 she went
  on to describe; exhorting her son 〃in all things to act upon
  principle;〃 and the society which the brothers John and Charles
  afterwards founded at Oxford is supposed to have been in a great
  measure the result of her exhortations。
  In the case of poets; literary men; and artists; the influence of
  the mother's feeling and taste has doubtless had great effect in
  directing the genius of their sons; and we find this especially
  illustrated in the lives of Gray; Thomson; Scott; Southey; Bulwer;
  Schiller; and Goethe。  Gray inherited; almost complete; his kind
  and loving nature from his mother; while his father was harsh and
  unamiable。  Gray was; in fact; a feminine manshy; reserved; and
  wanting in energy;but thoroughly irreproachable in life and
  character。  The poet's mother maintained the family; after her
  unworthy husband had deserted her; and; at her death; Gray placed
  on her grave; in Stoke Pogis; an epitaph describing her as 〃the
  careful tender mother of many children; one of whom alone had the
  misfortune to survive her。〃  The poet himself was; at his own
  desire; interred beside her worshipped grave。
  Goethe; like Schiller; owed the bias of his mind and character to
  his mother; who was a woman of extraordinary gifts。  She was full
  of joyous flowing mother…wit; and possessed in a high degree the
  art of stimulating young and active minds; instructing them in the
  science of life out of the treasures of her abundant