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  an estate in the general goodwill and respect of men; and they who
  invest in itthough they may not become rich in this world's
  goodswill find their reward in esteem and reputation fairly and
  honourably won。  And it is right that in life good qualities
  should tellthat industry; virtue; and goodness should rank the
  highestand that the really best men should be foremost。
  Simple honesty of purpose in a man goes a long way in life; if
  founded on a just estimate of himself and a steady obedience to
  the rule he knows and feels to be right。  It holds a man straight;
  gives him strength and sustenance; and forms a mainspring of
  vigorous action。  'No man;〃 once said Sir Benjamin Rudyard; 〃is
  bound to be rich or great;no; nor to be wise; but every man is
  bound to be honest。〃 (4)
  But the purpose; besides being honest; must be inspired by sound
  principles; and pursued with undeviating adherence to truth;
  integrity; and uprightness。  Without principles; a man is like a
  ship without rudder or compass; left to drift hither and thither
  with every wind that blows。  He is as one without law; or rule; or
  order; or government。  〃Moral principles;〃 says Hume; 〃are social
  and universal。  They form; in a manner; the PARTY of humankind
  against vice and disorder; its common enemy。〃
  Epictetus once received a visit from a certain magnificent orator
  going to Rome on a lawsuit; who wished to learn from the stoic
  something of his philosophy。  Epictetus received his visitor
  coolly; not believing in his sincerity。  〃You will only criticise
  my style;〃 said he; 〃not really wishing to learn principles。〃
  〃Well; but;〃 said the orator; 〃if I attend to that sort of thing;
  I shall be a mere pauper; like you; with no plate; nor equipage;
  nor land。〃〃I don't WANT such things;〃 replied Epictetus; 〃and
  besides; you are poorer than I am; after all。  Patron or no
  patron; what care I?  You DO care。  I am richer than you。  I don't
  care what Caesar thinks of me。  I flatter no one。  This is what I
  have; instead of your gold and silver plate。  You have silver
  vessels; but earthenware reasons; principles; appetites。  My mind
  to me a kingdom is; and it furnishes me with abundant and happy
  occupation in lieu of your restless idleness。  All your
  possessions seem small to you; mine seem great to me。  Your desire
  is insatiatemine is satisfied。〃 (5)
  Talent is by no means rare in the world; nor is even genius。  But
  can the talent be trusted?can the genius?  Not unless based on
  truthfulnesson veracity。  It is this quality more than any
  other that commands the esteem and respect; and secures the
  confidence of others。  Truthfulness is at the foundation of all
  personal excellence。  It exhibits itself in conduct。  It is
  rectitudetruth in action; and shines through every word and
  deed。  It means reliableness; and convinces other men that it can
  be trusted。  And a man is already of consequence in the world when
  it is known that he can be relied on;that when he says he knows
  a thing; he does know it;that when be says he will do a thing;
  he can do; and does it。  Thus reliableness becomes a passport to
  the general esteem and confidence of mankind。
  In the affairs of life or of business; it is not intellect that
  tells so much as character;not brains so much as heart;not
  genius so much as self…control; patience; and discipline;
  regulated by judgment。  Hence there is no better provision for the
  uses of either private or public life; than a fair share of
  ordinary good sense guided by rectitude。  Good sense; disciplined
  by experience and inspired by goodness; issues in practical
  wisdom。  Indeed; goodness in a measure implies wisdomthe
  highest wisdomthe union of the worldly with the spiritual。
  〃The correspondences of wisdom and goodness;〃 says Sir Henry
  Taylor; 〃are manifold; and that they will accompany each other is
  to be inferred; not only because men's wisdom makes them good; but
  because their goodness makes them wise。〃 (6)
  It is because of this controlling power of character in life that
  we often see men exercise an amount of influence apparently out of
  all proportion to their intellectual endowments。  They appear to
  act by means of some latent power; some reserved force; which acts
  secretly; by mere presence。  As Burke said of a powerful nobleman
  of the last century; 〃his virtues were his means。〃  The secret is;
  that the aims of such men are felt to be pure and noble; and they
  act upon others with a constraining power。
  Though the reputation of men of genuine character may be of slow
  growth; their true qualities cannot be wholly concealed。  They may
  be misrepresented by some; and misunderstood by others; misfortune
  and adversity may; for a time; overtake them but; with patience
  and endurance; they will eventually inspire the respect and
  command the confidence which they really deserve。
  It has been said of Sheridan that; had he possessed reliableness
  of character; he might have ruled the world; whereas; for want of
  it; his splendid gifts were comparatively useless。  He dazzled and
  amused; but was without weight or influence in life or politics。
  Even the poor pantomimist of Drury Lane felt himself his superior。
  Thus; when Delpini one day pressed the manager for arrears of
  salary; Sheridan sharply reproved him; telling him he had
  forgotten his station。  〃No; indeed; Monsieur Sheridan; I have
  not;〃 retorted Delpini; 〃I know the difference between us
  perfectly well。  In birth; parentage; and education; you are
  superior to me; but in life; character; and behaviour; I am
  superior to you。〃
  Unlike Sheridan; Burke; his countryman; was a great man of
  character。  He was thirty…five before be gained a seat in
  Parliament; yet he found time to carve his name deep in the
  political history of England。  He was a man of great gifts; and of
  transcendent force of character。  Yet he had a weakness; which
  proved a serious defectit was his want of temper; his genius
  was sacrificed to his irritability。  And without this apparently
  minor gift of temper; the most splendid endowments may be
  comparatively valueless to their possessor。
  Character is formed by a variety of minute circumstances; more or
  less under the regulation and control of the individual。  Not a
  day passes without its discipline; whether for good or for evil。
  There is no act; however trivial; but has its train of
  consequences; as there is no hair so small but casts its shadow。
  It was a wise saying of Mrs。 Schimmelpenninck's mother; never to
  give way to what is little; or by that little; however you may
  despise it; you will be practically governed。
  Every action; every thought; every feeling; contributes to the
  education of the temper; the habits; and understanding; and
  exercises an inevitable influence upon all the acts of our future
  life。  Thus character is undergoing constant change; for better or
  for worseeither being elevated on the one hand; or degraded on
  the other。  〃There is no fault nor folly of my life;〃 says Mr。
  Ruskin; 〃that does not rise up against me; and take away my joy;
  and shorten my power of possession; of sight; of understanding。
  And every past effort of my life; every gleam of rightness or good
  in it; is with me now; to help me in my grasp of this art and its
  vision。〃 (7)
  The mechanical law; that action and reaction are equal; holds true
  also in morals。  Good deeds act and react on the doers of them;
  and so do evil。  Not only so: they produce like effects; by the
  influence of example; on those who are the subjects of them。  But
  man is not the creature; so much as he is the creator; of
  circumstances: (8) and; by the exercise of his freewill; he can
  direct his actions so that they shall be productive of good rather
  than evil。  〃Nothing can work me damage but myself;〃 said St。
  Bernard; 〃the harm that I sustain I carry about with me; and I am
  never a real sufferer but by my own fault。〃
  The best sort of character; however; cannot be formed without
  effort。  There needs the exercise of constant self…watchfulness;
  self…discipline; and self…control。  There may be much faltering;
  stumbling; and temporary defeat; difficulties and temptations
  manifold to be battled with and overcome; but if the spirit be
  strong and the heart be upright; no one need despair of ultimate
  success。  The very effort to advanceto arrive at a higher
  standard of character than we have reachedis inspiring and
  invigorating; and even though we may fall short of it; we cannot
  fail to be improved by every; honest effort made in an upward
  direction。
  And with the light of great examples to guide usrepresentatives
  of humanity in its best formsevery one is not only justified;
  but bound in duty; to aim at reaching the highest standard of
  character: not to become the richest in means; but in spirit; not
  the greatest in worldly position; but in true honour; not the most
  intellectual; but the most virtuous; not the most po